How To Get A Girl’s Phone Number

Getting a girl’s number is actually a lot easier than you think, and the reason is not a good one. Turns out that girls will give out their number even if they are not completely sure they want to see the guy again. I’m pretty sure they’d give it out to a monkey if it could talk. Therefore our main goal is always getting her in bed as quickly as possible. When it doesn’t happen, especially if we’re hitting on her during the day, we go for the phone number.

For example if I see you trying to get a number of a plastered girl you met in the bar, I will slap your phone out of your hand. She won’t even remember you the next day!

Only get a phone number because you’ve exhausted all other options, such as the venue change or the same night lay, and NOT because the phone number was your goal all along. That said, here’s how you get numbers…

The key is to go for the date, not the number. Example: “I think we should hang out some time for a _______.” That’s it. If she says yes, take out your phone, and she will start telling your her number without you even having to ask. So really the way to get a girl’s number is to be indirect. Not only does it work but it decreases the chances of her flaking out since she did agree to seeing you again.

If she says she’s busy then that means she doesn’t want to see you again. Who cares, go on to the next girl.

It would be a waste to spend all that time approaching and talking to get her number and then blow it on the phone or through your text messages. Make it easy for yourself by learning the best practices that save you energy and ensure most numbers turn into first dates. In my book Bang I lay out a very detailed strategy on how to work the phone when you get numbers. Click here to learn more...

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