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How To Pick Up College Chicks
One thing you have to realize about college girls is that they don’t have a life experience. They’ve been raised in this cocoon of shopping malls and MTV, so it is a little harder to hit their emotional buttons of attraction and even love. They are also more looks oriented, which is generally not good if you’re a good looking guy.
But there is a good side: they are more susceptible to game from a fun and cocky guy. Think of their buttons are more primitive than an older woman, and you will need far less words and more action to get in their pants.
For example, with an older woman you meet in a bar or club, you have to talk to them for an extended period of time before you get their number, but with a college girls you can sit next to her in class, chat up about the subject at hand, toss out a couple jokes, and then suggest a meet up later to study for an exam. It takes much less work to get them out than it does someone else you meet outside the college setting. In fact, using studying as an excuse to get more exposure to her is not a bad idea to transition to something where alcohol is involved, like a party or bar. If she is underage then it definitely will be a party.
Another way to build attraction with college girls is through jealousy. If she thinks that you are successful with women, then your chances with her are much higher. Make sure you are on friendly terms with as many decent looking women as you can find and don’t be afraid to tell stories of your “friend” and how “she” did so and so. Your Facebook page can also be a tool that you use to make it seem like you are a desirable man. Once there is a number exchange, you’ll probably be using text message as the principal way to communicate with her.
Next up is the numbers game. It makes little sense to work only on one college girl at a time. Assuming each one has a large network of friends, there has to be at least one guy that is on her radar. It’s smart work on as many girls as you can at the same time until it clicks with one of them. Don’t be the guy who only has this one girl he’s idolizing and then missing signals from all other girls.
When it comes time to finding out if a girl is interested in you or not, a good technique is to never introduce yourself to her. Always wait to see if she asks you for your name. If she doesn’t ask you for your name, then chances are she is not interested. Always monitor if she is asking you questions about yourself and your background as an indicator to whether you are getting green lights or not.
Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more? If not then check out my book Bang, which details exactly how to build attraction. Click here to learn more...
How To Pick Up Girls On Facebook
Facebook is harder to pick up girls than on Myspace because of the privacy filter. Girls on Facebook can set their profile so that you can’t even message them unless you are a friend or friend of a friend. The only option that leaves you is the poke.
You can poke anyone on Facebook regardless if you are their friend or not. It’s the only way to communicate with a girl you like, so it’s the method we are going to use to pick up girls on Facebook. But first there is one major thing you need to get in order…
Your profile pictures have to be awesome. And I mean AWESOME. The key is quality so get four or five of your best looking photos in fun settings. Have one at the party, one on the beach, one traveling, one serious and alone, and so on. Each one should show a strong part of your personality, because the girl is only going to skim the words in your profile. Your pictures are your profile.
You must also have at least one photo with an attractive girl, preferably many attractive girls. This is called “social proof” and it tells the girl that you are not a loser who has never spoken to a girl before. If you don’t have above-average looks, just take a little more care in which photos you upload.
Most of the work to picking up on Facebook is before you poke her. She will receive the poke, look at your pictures, and then if she likes them she will poke back. After that simply add her as a friend and get ready to message her.
Your first message should be composed of two things:
1. Make a quick joke. Something like “Hey… nice poking skill.” It doesn’t have to be involved.
2. Ask a question based on a piece of information from her profile. If she likes a band you also like, say “What do you know about Band?”
Hopefully that leads to a back and forth conversation where you can eventually ask her out for a drink. Remember the game here is numbers, so poke tons of girls and see which ones poke you back.
Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more? If not then check out my book Bang, which details exactly how to build attraction. Click here to learn more...
How To Flirt In High School
I’m going to assume that you are in high school right now, and if you’re not then I’m contacting the FBI because you are a pervert (kidding). Just be sure to check your state’s age of consent before you hit on the young girls.
High school girls are a little different from ones in college and beyond. They are not yet emotionally developed so you will be unable to connect with them by using complicated or involved routines. They take cues from who they should like through their friends, so if her friends don’t think you are cool then you have absolutely no chance. If it happens that you meet her without her friends around but she needs their validation, you will not get anywhere. She’ll just freeze up and not talk to you.
On the other hand if she is the independent type without a lot of friends, then you can hit on her like you normally would an older girl. It comes down to if she is the popular cliquey type or not. If she is then your job is harder; otherwise it’s easier.
The best way to flirt with high school girls is to establish fast interest and then make it seem like you don’t like her. For some reason this formula is like crack to the high school girl. You want to get off the on the right foot by making her laugh or having a solid first conversation, then follow them with being aloof and teasing her mercifully. The more she thinks you don’t like her, the more she will like you.
This strategy sometimes works on older chicks, but it’s much more deadly when flirting with high school girls. You have to be that guy that simply doesn’t give a fuck but is cool and mostly friendly around her friends. There will be a moment when it’s obvious she likes you because she keeps asking you questions. That’s when you get her isolated and go for the kill, usually after playing the text messaging game.
Meeting high school girls is easy if you are in high school (obviously), but if you’re not in high school then your best bet is the mall on the weekends, especially the food court. The food court is like home base for the high school crowd and you will have to approach with something like, “You guys go to ________ high school right?” If all else fails then you can always hit on your teacher.
Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more? If not then check out my book Bang, which details exactly how to build attraction. Click here to learn more...
How To Flirt With Your Teacher
Before I tell you how to flirt with your teacher or professor, first realize that your chances of having sex with your teacher is slim to none. In fact if you do sleep with her (or him), please email me so I can share in your happiness. That said, here’s the secret…
ISOLATION.
You must get your teacher alone either before or after class where you can work your magic, which is looking cute if you’re a girl and being playful and joking around if you’re a guy. The main idea is to extend the conversation as long as possible so you stand out way beyond anyone else. Okay let’s assume you’re a guy for a minute.
You’re going to have to game her like you would a girl you met at a party. That means you will tease her, make her laugh, and talk closer than you normally would. If you’re too nervous to do this, or if you’re scared you will get rejected and it affecting your grade, then don’t do it. Otherwise you will want to keep having these isolated conversations until that one magic moment where you leave the classroom or building and go have a coffee , snack, or smoothie together. From there it should be easy, but there will be a point where you have to make a very bold move and risk a spectacular rejection.
Again I must remind you that I don’t know a single guy who has had sex with his teacher, but with all the news reports you see of hot blonde teachers sleeping with their 15-year-old students, it is happening. Just stick with the isolation plan and follow it through.
Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more? If not then check out my book Bang, which details exactly how to build attraction. Click here to learn more...
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