How To Pick Up A Waitress

The biggest myth to picking up waitresses is that they are “hard to pick up.” I believe the only guys who say that are ones who have never tried, because waitresses are the most receptive to game. To be a waitress means you have to be outgoing and friendly, qualities that go well with pick up artists so they need a receptive girl in order to deliver their game.

One thing that doesn’t work on waitresses is showing off with money. Chances are she gets it a dozen times a day and eventually it becomes hard for her to distinguish all the guys that are hinting at how much money they make. If you want to pick up a waitress the best angle to take is “poor service” angle. Let me explain…

You want to tease her that the service is not that great. For example she’ll bring you a drink and you joke, “This drink doesn’t have enough ice… the service here is really bad.” You say this with a smile on your face. That’s the key! She knows you’re just fucking around.

Later say that you and your friend want to change waitresses with one who is more “warm and affectionate.” The idea is to bust her balls that she isn’t trying hard enough. Waitresses are very receptive to this type of game. Try it.

You should get to the point where you are having longer and longer conversation each time she comes to your table. If the restaurant is busy then this is going to be hard to accomplish because she simply won’t have the time to chat, but otherwise she may stick around the table for a minute or longer. Your goal is to ask her out for a drink before you get the check, so that she writes her number on the bill.

Approaching is the hardest part of the game. Unless you know what you are doing it will take hundreds of tries to get master it through trial and error (I should know because that's how I learned). If you're working on your approaching skills then check out my book Bang, which tells you how to do it from start to end. Click here to learn more...

How To Flirt By Email

Email is slowly dying and being replaced by text messaging and Facebook. I don’t know many guys that solely use email as a way to hit on girls, but every now and then it has its uses.

For example, say you meet a girl but the conversation was cut short. If you know her friend, you can easily get her email address, which will be your first contact with the girl.

The number one tip that will save you a lot of frustration is this: be short. I know it will be tempting to fill in that white space on the email with attempts to be funny and interesting, but chances are the girl won’t take it the same way you intended. Since you are unable to calibrate her reaction since you won’t be there when she reads it, it’s best to lean towards the generic and safe side than going for risks.

Unfortunately it’s very difficult to build attraction in email. If you didn’t build it when you first met her, chances are you won’t ever build it. The exception is if you’re meeting girls online and she becomes attracted to you through your pictures and profile. That said, the less you try to make her like you through email, the better. So actually the less you flirt by email, the better.

The goal of email is to get her out on a date. You want to do this no later than the second email. The first email will be basic making a quick joke and saying how you enjoyed the conversation. You will wait for her reply, make a comment about it, then end the email with this:

Hey what’s your schedule like this week? I was thinking we can hang out for a drink..

That’s it! Then you just sit and wait. If she agrees, your third email will be confirming a time and place. You can also get her phone number to confirm by voice or text. The simpler you make it the better because it has the bonus of making you seem mysterious and almost shady, which girls are attracted to.

Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more? If not then check out my book Bang, which details exactly how to build attraction. Click here to learn more...

How To Flirt With Your Teacher

Before I tell you how to flirt with your teacher or professor, first realize that your chances of having sex with your teacher is slim to none. In fact if you do sleep with her (or him), please email me so I can share in your happiness. That said, here’s the secret…

ISOLATION.

You must get your teacher alone either before or after class where you can work your magic, which is looking cute if you’re a girl and being playful and joking around if you’re a guy. The main idea is to extend the conversation as long as possible so you stand out way beyond anyone else. Okay let’s assume you’re a guy for a minute.

You’re going to have to game her like you would a girl you met at a party. That means you will tease her, make her laugh, and talk closer than you normally would. If you’re too nervous to do this, or if you’re scared you will get rejected and it affecting your grade, then don’t do it. Otherwise you will want to keep having these isolated conversations until that one magic moment where you leave the classroom or building and go have a coffee , snack, or smoothie together. From there it should be easy, but there will be a point where you have to make a very bold move and risk a spectacular rejection.

Again I must remind you that I don’t know a single guy who has had sex with his teacher, but with all the news reports you see of hot blonde teachers sleeping with their 15-year-old students, it is happening. Just stick with the isolation plan and follow it through.

Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more? If not then check out my book Bang, which details exactly how to build attraction. Click here to learn more...

How To Flirt By Text Messaging

Text messaging is the new thing when it comes to contacting girls. It’s slowly replacing phone conversations as a means to not only communicate with the girl but get dates as well. There’s going to be a day in the future where our kids wondered about how phone conversations worked, like we ask our parents with mom shows us love letters written by dad.

When it comes to flirting in text messaging, the key rule is the shorter and the breezier the better. You don’t want to numb the girl to you by texting often with many questions. By cryptic, use fragment sentences, and keep her guessing what you really mean. Send random text messages with two or third words followed by question marks. For example, “Going out tonight?” and “Anything exciting?” is good.

Always take longer to reply than it took her. For example if she took ten minutes to write back to your text message, take longer than 10 minutes. This is important so you don’t come across as needy or bored. Remember that you have to play the game in text just as much as you would in person or on the phone. Seductions are made and broken by text, believe it or not.

The ultimate goal of text is to get her out on a date, so you should only send a flurry of texts on the day or the day before you want to get her out. There is no point in starting a long text messaging dialogue on Sunday if you want to get her out on Wednesday night. Instead just wait until Wednesday night where you can message her something like “What are you doing tonight?” The dialogue will sporadically continue int the evening until you suggest a meeting. Write, “a drink.. 9pm?”

If you’re looking for the ultimate strategy in text messaging, it’s this: KISS… Keep It Simple Stupid.

It would be a waste to spend all that time approaching and talking to get her number and then blow it on the phone or through your text messages. Make it easy for yourself by learning the best practices that save you energy and ensure most numbers turn into first dates. In my book Bang I lay out a very detailed strategy on how to work the phone when you get numbers. Click here to learn more...