When You’re Trying To Date A Girl Who Is About To Travel

It can be death if a girl goes on a trip before you banged it. Something strange happens to a girl’s brain where things reset on the road. She comes back less enthused than ever to get it from a guy who was working on her. Let me give you a recent example.

I met a girl at a bar and made out with her within a half hour or so. I tried to seal it that same night but couldn’t due to bad logistics. I got the consolation prize of her number instead. The first time I called her I left a message and she returned my call almost instantly. Not only was I sure she liked me, but that she wanted to see me soon too.

We initially met on a Saturday and agreed to meet for drinks on a Tuesday. On Wednesday she was leaving to Miami for two weeks for business. I knew what I had to do…

After our date ended I suggested to walk her home (she lived nearby) since I wanted her to “get home safe.” She agreed and we walked to her front door. She asked if I wanted to come in, sparing me the important line that would have gotten me in (page 97 of Bang). We’re in her room and things progress from there, but I get healthy doses of resistance. She tells me this is only our fast date, she doesn’t move that fast, blah blah blah.

“No problem,” I tell her. But after a few minutes I’d start back up and get just a bit farther than I did before until she tells me to stop again. This was repeated about eight times over the course of two hours until we were both naked and I banged.

Do I normally break down resistance for two hours like that? Very rarely am I that persistent, which was very close to bordering on slimy. I did it this time because she was leaving the next day. It was my life or death duty to tap that because I knew that this would be my only chance.

Not ten minutes I was out of her house did she call me wanting to wish my goodbye. The next day before her flight she texted me and it was obvious she had a strong liking to me. I dare even say that she was crazy about me. Do you want to guess what happened when she came back? Nothing. I haven’t seen her since! She returned my phone calls with text messages days later and I eventually gave up.

To me this makes sense. Read the first paragraph again. While I do not know why travel resets things, it almost always does. If you find your girl is leaving for a trip more than a couple days in length, you should push harder than you normally do to seal the deal. You may not get a chance when she returns.

Getting a girl to the bedroom and dealing with resistance is the final stop before you notch your belt. It makes no difference how well you can attract a girl if you don’t know how to seal the deal. It would be a waste if you don’t know how to properly finish the job once you’ve already gotten her attention.

In Bang I have a chapter devoted specifically to “Late Game” that describes the best techniques and even explains the optimal order to take off her clothing while you have her in bed. Learn more about how Bang can improve your game.

4 Tips On Coffee Shop Dating

First the bad news: no guy gets laid from a coffee shop date. A similar alternative to going on coffee shop dates are ice cream or smoothie dates. Those apply here as well, and may be better suited for the summer months.

During a coffee shop date there are four things you want to keep in mind..

1. The less talking you do the better. Since there is a low chance of transitioning to the bedroom on this date, there’s more you can do to hurt than help. Just be cool and let her do most of the talking.

2. Don’t let it drag on. Even if you two are having a great conversation, you want to end the date within two hours. Definitely don’t go over two hours. Leave her wanting more by ending the date on a good note by saying you have to run. This increases the chances of a date two.

3. Let her order first. By doing this you can avoid having to pay for her drink. Good thing about coffee dates is they are pretty cheap so you don’t have to worry about appearing as a beta male if you pay for her coffee. It’s not like an expensive dinner date.

4. Touch her! You need to warm her up for the next date by doing some subtle touching. This includes touching the jewelry on her fingers and wrists as you ask what they mean, and also some slight touching underneath the table. While these moves don’t do much to increase attraction on their own, the girl won’t be weirded out on the next date when you start getting more intimate. You gradually ramp up touching instead of shocking her system at once.

The whole point of the game, besides some cheap thrills in the sack, is to find the quality girl you deserve instead of having to settle like most guys do. The reason you are reading this right now is because you believe the path lies in game. If you're looking to possess the whole package, from the right inner game all the way to successful dates that end in sex, check out my book Bang. It's a one-stop shop for the most important things you need to know. Click here to learn more...