How To Isolate A Girl At The Bar

Many times a girl you approach at a bar or club will isolate herself from her cockblocking friends. She’ll let them go off to another part of the bar to so you can talk without interruptions and maybe even make-out. But sometimes the isolation doesn’t happen on its own.

If her friends are hanging on her like glue and you sense a moment where you can escalate the interaction, try this simple yet effective isolation move:

“How about you come to the bar with me so I can get a drink…”

If the bar is especially crowded, leave your hand out for her to grab and lead her to the bar, but DO NOT buy her a drink. Get one drink and offer her a few sips. Linger at the bar, put your arm on her waist, and make a move before your drink is done.

The whole point of the game, besides some cheap thrills in the sack, is to find the quality girl you deserve instead of having to settle like most guys do. I remember the time when I personally couldn't even have conversations with pretty girls. I would just stare at them and do nothing, hoping that by some miracle of God they would come talk to me first. But they never did.

My problem was part lack of confidence, part fear, and part inexperience. Yet once I decided to take control of the problem, I sucked it up and started approaching girls everywhere like a maniac. That's how I learned by trial and error and came up with an effective system to go from approach to bang, which I describe in my book Bang.

In Bang I teach you everything I learned about girls with a strong focus on approaching and having interesting conversation that creates attraction. Then step by step I tell you how to call the girl, take her out on dates, and then finally seal the deal. With my system I'm confident you will eventually meet and bang the one girl that you want for the long-term. Click here to learn more about Bang today.

How To Pick Up Girls At A Bar

The easiest place to find girls to pick up is also the hardest. The reason? Well even though bars and clubs offer a dense population of single females in a small amount of space, there is a handful of things that are working against you, such as…

1. Cockblockers. You think her friends are going to let you sweep her off her feet? You’ll be lucky if you can get in a ten minute conversation before the friend pulls her away.

2. Noise. Especially in the clubs, it can be very hard to have a normal conversation with a girl. So that leaves the dance option available, but talking is the best choice to build a connection. Unless she is attracted to your look she will get bored of dancing and then go on to the next guy.

3. Alcohol. Now this is a double edged sword. On one hand it makes both you and the girl you are talking to more social, but after a certain point the girls will get so drunk so at best you will get a sloppy makeout. It will be rare a drunk girl’s friend will let you take her home (see number 1), and getting her phone number will be useless since she’ll forget about you the next day.

4. Other guys. I still haven’t found a bar that regularly has more girls than guys. Chances are you will be competing against a whole lot of desperate guys and unless you approach often you will be lost in this sea of sausage. It’s not hard to separate yourself from them if you stand out from the crowd with your own style and game, but it does mean you have to put some work into it.

5. Time. Unless you live in a large metropolitan area, the only times you can find a decent number of girls in bars or clubs is on the weekends. So that means you wait the entire week to talk to a girl for a few hour window come Friday night.

Even with all those negative, there are many pick up artists getting laid at nightspots. Lucky for you that 90% of guys have absolutely no game. They just hold the wall up with their warm beer hoping girls talk to them. So here’s my five best tips to approach in bars and clubs:

1. Play the numbers game. When you are approaching girls in the daytime, it can happen that you get an email or number from each girl you approach, but at night the odds are stacked against you. To battle that you need to concentrate on quantity, especially until you build you game up. Don’t leave the house unless you have an intent to approach at least 10 girls, and actually count as you do your approaches.

2. Use funny openers. Funny openers work much better at night. A good one to use is to pick a celebrity you kind of look like, then go up to a group of girls and say, “Hey guys, do I look like *celebrity*.” After they answer, tell them you were wondering because the last girl you talked said you looked like him and you weren’t sure if she was serious or joking around.

3. Touch touch touch. Girls who are intoxicated are much more receptive to touching than sober girls. Take advantage of that by touching often as you pass the 10 and 15 minute mark of the conversation. Good places are her shoulder and small of her back. As you get deeper into the conversation and she responds positively, you can start touching her hands.

4. Go for the make out, not the number. It’s a fools game to go for numbers in bars because the chance she will return your first call is pretty low. In fact if 33% of your numbers call back then you are dealing very well. Okay there are exceptions. If you’ve been talking to her for hours and you have an incredible connection, then by all means go for the phone number, but in that case you should be getting the make out first. Shoot for the ceiling first, and treat the number as a backup prize.

5. Remember this is just a game. There really is no reason to hesitate approaching or experimenting in a bar or club, the last place where you should be nervous or scared about anything. If you bomb, do you really think the girls are going to remember you a day from now? Even if you get a number after talking to her for 15 minutes they might forget you! Bottom line is treat it like a game, don’t give a shit, and keep approaching girls until you are either exhausted or come home with something.

Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number.

After approaching hundreds of different girls with all types of openers, I finally settled on two that are my "defaults," meaning they are powerful enough that I can use them regardless of the girl or the environment. I share them in my book Bang, along with others you can use for bars, clubs, daytime spots, and even the gym. It has 64 pages on Early Game that focus exclusively on the approach and what to say immediately after. I share dozens of conversation tips with tons of word-for-word examples, and I also teach you the concept of threads to keep the interaction going without having awkward silences.

You can take the time to make up openers on your own, experimenting over the next several months, or you can learn mine and get started using something that works off the bat. If you want to learn my favorite natural openers that are easy to use and actually work, click here to learn more about my book Bang today.

How To Pick Up A Waitress

The biggest myth to picking up waitresses is that they are “hard to pick up.” I believe the only guys who say that are ones who have never tried, because waitresses are the most receptive to game. To be a waitress means you have to be outgoing and friendly, qualities that go well with pick up artists so they need a receptive girl in order to deliver their game.

One thing that doesn’t work on waitresses is showing off with money. Chances are she gets it a dozen times a day and eventually it becomes hard for her to distinguish all the guys that are hinting at how much money they make. If you want to pick up a waitress the best angle to take is “poor service” angle. Let me explain…

You want to tease her that the service is not that great. For example she’ll bring you a drink and you joke, “This drink doesn’t have enough ice… the service here is really bad.” You say this with a smile on your face. That’s the key! She knows you’re just fucking around.

Later say that you and your friend want to change waitresses with one who is more “warm and affectionate.” The idea is to bust her balls that she isn’t trying hard enough. Waitresses are very receptive to this type of game. Try it.

You should get to the point where you are having longer and longer conversation each time she comes to your table. If the restaurant is busy then this is going to be hard to accomplish because she simply won’t have the time to chat, but otherwise she may stick around the table for a minute or longer. Your goal is to ask her out for a drink before you get the check, so that she writes her number on the bill.

Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number.

After approaching hundreds of different girls with all types of openers, I finally settled on two that are my "defaults," meaning they are powerful enough that I can use them regardless of the girl or the environment. I share them in my book Bang, along with others you can use for bars, clubs, daytime spots, and even the gym. It has 64 pages on Early Game that focus exclusively on the approach and what to say immediately after. I share dozens of conversation tips with tons of word-for-word examples, and I also teach you the concept of threads to keep the interaction going without having awkward silences.

You can take the time to make up openers on your own, experimenting over the next several months, or you can learn mine and get started using something that works off the bat. If you want to learn my favorite natural openers that are easy to use and actually work, click here to learn more about my book Bang today.

Where To Pick Up & Meet Girls In Las Vegas

Las Vegas is a combination of reality and hype, depending on how much money you have in your bank account. If you’re loaded then you can come and stay at the luxury hotel, buy tables in the hottest clubs, and indulge in whatever strip club you choose, but otherwise it’s not the easiest place in the world to pick up. Here are some suggestions:

1. Blackjack. It’s not too hard meeting girls playing blackjack, a social game that breeds a lot of interaction among your fellow players. A simple “Where are you from?” will get a conversation going. Just don’t get too distracted and lose your money.

2. The clubs. Every major casino has a club inside and you simply have to ask around to get free passes. Only thing is most clubs are absolutely mobbed on the weekends so they may be hard to get into if you don’t have girls on you or reserve an expensive table. The clubs don’t have the friendliest girls you meet, who are more concerned with looking good and getting free drinks than hooking up, but if you’re used to the uptight East Coast scene then you may be pleasantly surprised. The hottest clubs are Pure in Caesars Palace, The Bank in Wynn, Tao in Venetian, and Body English in Hard Rock.

3. The bars. This is your best bet, especially the center bar at the Hard Rock casino. Just go there! It’s the only bar I’ve ever been to that has girls still rolling in after 5am, and if you don’t want to drop a lot of cash on a Vegas weekend, I can’t think of another place that offers friendly and hot girls. Another bar you want to visit is Freakin Frog near the UNLV campus.

4. The strip. During the day you will find many girls roaming around the strip with their oversized drink glasses. You can definitely approach them under the guise of something you’re looking for. Then you shift the conversation to what she is doing later in the night.

Las Vegas is a good place to come if you have a good amount of money to drop, but I don’t recommend it overall as a place to pick up girls because you will just be counting on getting a one night stand in a placer that is probably the shallowest place on Earth. Good luck.

If you need tips on how to approach girls in Las Vegas, specifically opening lines and conversational pieces to keep things going while building attraction, check out my book Bang, which goes on for pages on how to approach and keep the interaction going. Click here to learn more.