How To Be Funny To Attract Girls

One day a friend said to me: “If you can make a girl laugh, you’re halfway there.” It’s true that humor is a huge attractant and acts as a tractor beam at hauling in fun girls with a sense of humor. So how exactly do you be funny?

First you need to your research, which is actually the fun part. You need to expose yourself to funny materials to understand the structure of humor. The best way to do this is through funny television shows, movies, and stand-up comedy acts.

The way that I got my humor was through watching Simpsons and Seinfeld, which has humor suitable for the general population and the girls you will hit on. Watching stand-up, such as Dave Chappelle and Chris Rock, will also show you other ways of humor.

Problem is that it’s hard to study humor as you would a subject in school. Your best alternative is to expose yourself to humor and let it “leak” into your personality. It really does start with one joke that you try that makes a girl laugh. You repeat that joke again and add more jokes as you go along. From there it builds and builds into a collection of humor that you can use to attract girls.

Since you’re not going to reinvent the wheel, it’s best to copy other people’s humor first, experiment with it, and then adapt it for your own purposes. There’s no need to sit at home coming up with original jokes when there is so much out there you can “borrow” instead.

Also, when you’re starting out with using humor as a way to build attraction, take it easy and don’t be too heavy on the humor. You’re a pick up artist, not a comedian or entertainer. Instead you just want to use bits of humor here or there to keep the conversation fun and the interaction light. It shouldn’t be the main way you use to attract women.

One last tip is to understand that being funny is a lifelong project, and it’s something you will always work on. Don’t worry if it takes time and definitely don’t stress out if your jokes are falling flat. Even the best comedians bomb every now and then, but we just don’t see it because they test most of their new jokes in small comedy clubs before you see them on television. This is something you’ll always be experimenting with.

Flirting and building attraction is crucial when it comes to helping the girl decide that she wants to sleep with you. Before I knew how attraction really worked, I'd approach a girl and talk about boring topics such as work or her favorite movies, and then she would politely excuse herself from the conversation only a couple minutes into it. But now I know better. When you talk about more interesting topics, she sees you as more interesting. Obvious, right? With a couple additional techniques, the "interesting" is turned into strong attraction.

Once attraction is built you can get her number and take her on a date or go for the one night stand (my preferred method). I teach you how to do all this in my book Bang, which details my complete banging system with step-by-step strategies such as The Four Key Moves To Intimacy (for when you want to kiss her) and my bedroom technique for sealing the deal. And of course my book tells you how to keep a fun conversation going, whether you just met her or are on a date.

If you had a system for building strong attraction with random girls you meet, would you get laid more than you are now? If you answered yes, then click here to learn more about Bang today.

How To Get Girls To Like You

The problem with this question is how it’s framed. Asking how to get girls to like you is like trying to find a magic secret that all of sudden changes how girls see you. It doesn’t work like that.

A better question is “How Do I Build Attraction.” Attraction is that hard-to-describe force which causes a girl to think of you in a sexual or intimate way. There are a lot of different things that builds attraction but let’s discuss a few important ones.

1. Being an alpha male. An alpha male is the type of male that lives much differently from his beta male counterpart, who is scared of girls and passive in chasing them. An alpha male does not concern himself with other people’s opinions of him and does not explain away his faults to others. He goes after what he wants without apology and doesn’t care one way or the other if he gets rejected or not. Being an alpha male is not so much a personality type but a way of life. It’s something you must emulate in the alpha’s you meet in everyday life.

2. Being interesting. One reliable way to built attraction is to be interesting. The only thing is you can’t be interesting unless you are interesting. If you’re doing nothing besides playing video games all then how are you going to have interesting topics to talk discuss when it comes time to talk to a girl you like? The way to be interesting is to do things like read interesting books, explore interesting hobbies, and visit interesting places. There is no shortcut around this.

3. Make her laugh. If you make a girl laugh then you are already halfway there. The effect of making a girl laugh is much different than making a guy laugh. It’s very rare that you will be more attracted to a girl just because she told you a funny joke, but a girl’s brain is constructed differently to where humor will build attraction. What this means to you is you must get rid of your dour and depressed demeanor and take on something that is fun and positive. If you don’t have a sense of humor that it’s time to learn.

Flirting and building attraction is crucial when it comes to helping the girl decide that she wants to sleep with you. Before I knew how attraction really worked, I'd approach a girl and talk about boring topics such as work or her favorite movies, and then she would politely excuse herself from the conversation only a couple minutes into it. But now I know better. When you talk about more interesting topics, she sees you as more interesting. Obvious, right? With a couple additional techniques, the "interesting" is turned into strong attraction.

Once attraction is built you can get her number and take her on a date or go for the one night stand (my preferred method). I teach you how to do all this in my book Bang, which details my complete banging system with step-by-step strategies such as The Four Key Moves To Intimacy (for when you want to kiss her) and my bedroom technique for sealing the deal. And of course my book tells you how to keep a fun conversation going, whether you just met her or are on a date.

If you had a system for building strong attraction with random girls you meet, would you get laid more than you are now? If you answered yes, then click here to learn more about Bang today.

How To Get Attractive Women

Before I share advice on how to get attractive women, keep in mind that attractive women are very desirable. The most attractive women in your city or town gets hit on every day by men trying to get into their pants. You have to first ask yourself what you’re bringing to the table, whether it’s stability (in the form of lots of money) or an emotional connection (in the form of “game” and personality).

Since this is not a get rich web site, we’re concerned with how to get attractive women through game and personality. If you hit their buttons in the right way and build attraction, then getting to the bedroom will be automatic.

Here are the three skillsets you MUST learn…

1. How to approach women. You can’t sit back and wait for a woman to approach you, especially if you are average looking like most guys (and myself). If you go to clubs and bars regularly you probably already know that the quality of women that approach you will be much lower than you want. To get the maximum quality of what you deserve, you have to literally walk to the girl you want and start talking, build attraction (see below), and then walk away with a number or date.

2. How to talk. Talking and flirting with girls fall in the topic of “game,” which concerns us with how to build attraction and connection through flirting, routine, and humor. Simply going up to a girl and telling her you think she is cute does very little to build attraction because it doesn’t show your value as a male. You need to build this value up through effective stories and lines that you practice before you talk to the girl.

3. How to seal the deal (how to close). After you’ve approached her and she is interested in you (you’ll know because she keeps talking to you and asking you questions), then it’s time to escalate the encounter to the next level. The most common way of doing that is asking for a phone number, but if you’re at a bar then you can either make out with her or take her back to your place or hers.

She’s not going to escalate the encounter for you unless she is drunk, so it’s your job to ask for the phone number or to get more touchy-feely (hand and shoulder touching) to go in for the kiss.

Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number.

After approaching hundreds of different girls with all types of openers, I finally settled on two that are my "defaults," meaning they are powerful enough that I can use them regardless of the girl or the environment. I share them in my book Bang, along with others you can use for bars, clubs, daytime spots, and even the gym. It has 64 pages on Early Game that focus exclusively on the approach and what to say immediately after. I share dozens of conversation tips with tons of word-for-word examples, and I also teach you the concept of threads to keep the interaction going without having awkward silences.

You can take the time to make up openers on your own, experimenting over the next several months, or you can learn mine and get started using something that works off the bat. If you want to learn my favorite natural openers that are easy to use and actually work, click here to learn more about my book Bang today.