How To Pick Girls Up At The Mall

It’s hard to find a guy who has “mastered” the art of hitting on girls at the shopping mall, but it can be done.

Now think for a second what the main purpose behind malls are. To shop, right? Therefore if you go in with an approach related to shopping, you will come across as genuine that results in a higher chance of getting a phone number. Last thing you want to do is be labeled the mall creep.

Alright so here is what you do: Walk up to a girl you want to talk to and ask her for an opinion on a gift you want to buy for a feminine relative. Here’s an example…

You: “Hi, can I ask your opinion on something?”

Girl: “Umm sure.”

You: “I’m shopping for my sister who is about your age and I’m not sure if this is a good thing to buy her or not.”

Then you either say or show the thing you are talking about. The girl you are talking to will give her opinion about whether you should buy it or not, and then you try to continue the conversation by either making a joke or statement.

If you say a joke you can something like, “I swear I’m not shopping for myself!”

If you want to make a statement say, “Yeah because it’s pretty difficult to shop for women. It’s like reaching for a light switch in the dark.”

You want to throw some bait out there after you ask for your initial opinion so she responds and a natural conversation develops. The hardest part of shopping mall game is approaching the girls in the first place. It will be awkward having to walk around in the ladies department pretending you are buying a gift. But this is the best way to do it.

How To Pick Up A Waitress

The biggest myth to gaming waitresses is that they are hard. I believe the only guys who say that are ones who have never tried, because waitresses are the most receptive to game. To be a waitress means you have to be outgoing and friendly, qualities that go well with players so they need a receptive girl in order to deliver their game.

One thing that doesn’t work on waitresses is showing off with money. Chances are she gets it a dozen times a day and eventually it becomes hard for her to distinguish all the guys that are hinting at how much money they make. If you want to game a waitress the best angle to take is “poor service” angle. Let me explain…

You want to tease her that the service is not that great. For example she’ll bring you a drink and you joke, “This drink doesn’t have enough ice… the service here is really bad.” You say this with a smile on your face. That’s the key! She knows you’re just fucking around.

Later say that you and your friend want to change waitresses with one who is more “warm and affectionate.” The idea is to bust her balls that she isn’t trying hard enough. Waitresses are very receptive to this type of game. Try it.

You should get to the point where you are having longer and longer conversation each time she comes to your table. If the restaurant is busy then this is going to be hard to accomplish because she simply won’t have the time to chat, but otherwise she may stick around the table for a minute or longer. Your goal is to ask her out for a drink before you get the check, so that she writes her number on the bill.

Where To Pick Up Girls

Women can be approached anywhere, but some places are easier to approach than others. There is no solid rule that says where you can meet girls. As long as there are girls around, there has to be an optimum way to walk up to them and start a conversation.

Here’s the top places to meet girls:

1. Bars and clubs. On one hand they are loud, smoky, and artificial, but they offer high quantities of girls that makes it easy to bounce from one girl to the next. If you get rejected it’s not a big deal because there will usually be so many other girls to talk to. When it comes to which one you should focus on, it all depends on if you can dance well. If you can’t then stick to bars where you will mostly be talking. Otherwise go to clubs where your dance moves will help.

2. Bookstores and coffee shops. The main problem with these types of venues is that there isn’t a whole lot of selection. You can go to a coffee shop and not even see one girl worthy. Or if there is a girl, she is sitting with a group of her friends, or even worse, a guy. Your best bet will be to go to the most crowded bookstore or coffee shop in town where there is a lot of people. Then you get near the girl or girls and start talking.

3. Internet. I don’t recommend the internet I know what you’re thinking… “But there’s so many girls and it looks so easy,” but it’s very rare that you will pull a quality girl from the internet. Trying to meet a girl from the internet will turn you into a copy and paste monkey. And plus the kinds of girls that hang around internet sites tend to have social issues. Why else would she choose to sit back and want to sift through the emails of dozens of horny guys?

4. The mall. Personally, this is not my first choice when it comes to meeting women, especially if you are not a teenager, but due to your age or location it could be one of the best options you have. The key here is to go during the time there will be the most girls open to meeting guys, which will be weekend afternoons. To make it seem like you’re not there to meet girls, you will have to give the appearance that you are shopping around.

By far the best way to meet girls is…

5. House parties. To get invited to house parties you need to have friends and to have friends you need to be interesting and fun. They are the best place to meet girls because her bitch shield, or guard, will be low and she will be open to meeting someone. Even if she doesn’t like you from the beginning she’ll still give you a chance since you probably are friends with her friends. Plus, it’s easy to keep conversations going I never decline an invitation to a party, no matter how small. All that you have to do is approach.

How To Pick Up A Goth Girl

Before you think about gaming a goth girl, first ask yourself why these girls turned goth? Chances are it’s because they are tired of the mainstream commercial culture and want to feel or be different. If you are an Abercrombie & Fitch or J Crew dude who looks like everyone else, then you’re not getting any.

The best way to get with a goth girl is to have a unique interest that she values. You don’t have to be goth but you have to trend towards the alternative. For example if you are an artist or DJ, this will immediately appeal to the goth girl, along with anything artsy. But you’re a frat boy then it’s best to stick to those red cup dorm parties.

A good place to meet goth girls or reformed goth girls are renaissance fairs, also known as “ren fests.” For some reason they cannot resist dressing up in Middle Ages garb and calling each other hags and wenches. Dress up as a knight or monk and work your approach magic. I’m not sure where the line at goth girl ends and the one at nerd begins, but there is a lot of overlap. Think like a goth girl, develop something unique they would be attracted to, then go find them. Easy right?