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5 Differences Between Night And Day Game

There’s a reason why, when two things are really different, people say “it’s like night and day.” Night and day are about as opposite as it gets. This is also the case for the corresponding type of game you should run during them. Something that seems perfectly reasonable in a night club will get you drummed out of Starbucks during the day. Night game and day game are two very different animals. Yet, a lot of guys who know something about how to approach a girl in the safety of a dark room will try to do basically the same thing in a bookstore or subway, only to be perplexed when the girl ignores his texts or walks away from him mid-sentence. Part of being a well-rounded man is understanding these different knowledges and abilities. I don’t need to tell you that confining yourself to one type of venue or part of the day can seriously limit your success. Neither type of game is easier or harder, just different.

During the day…

1. Simplicity is king.

Elaborate openers and dramatic behavior can sometimes yield results in the night-club environment, especially when they’re unique and do a good job of getting a girl’s attention. The same goes for what you wear. A loud article might get you noticed, as long as it’s not too ridiculous. But, during the day, these sorts of things will get you written off as weird and, nine times out of ten, will scare the girl off. Your goal is to spark mild, gradually increasing intrigue, not to create a big splash.

 2. Shields are down (or rather, different shields are up).

When a girl gets ready to out at night, she assembles an elaborate costume that often makes her look nothing like herself: an impractically short dress, high heels, straightened hair, tons of make-up, and jewelry. With every layer that she slaps on, her confidence grows. By the time she walks out the door, she has a “girl swagger” borne from “knowing she looks good.” Even an ugly, fat girl’s sense of worth will be a few clicks higher after donning her costume.

This is worsened by being with a group of girlfriends who are all dressed that way and constantly validate each other’s “sexiness” by telling one another, successfully get noticed through attention-whoring, and then repeatedly reject guys who are fawning attention on them. With every rejection, her confidence climbs higher. It’s a vicious, self-reinforcing loop.

During the day, this form of “night courage” is greatly diminished, even if a girl is well dressed. What you get instead is a greater suspiciousness toward strangers and reluctance to engage in conversation. A girl’s “weirdness” meter is at full sensitivity; even the slightest awkwardness can set it off. This is why the best day-game approaches are ones that are gradual, gentle, and unfold organically.

3. Outcomes are more modest.

The reason guys still go out at night is because you can do major damage pretty quickly. If you’ve done things right, it’s not unreasonable to be making out with a girl 30 minutes after you’ve met her in a bar. Alcohol is a powerful social lubricant that, when combined with the cover of darkness and loud music, provides a powerful atmosphere for sex. This will rarely happen at a bookstore. It’s not uncommon to take a girl home the same night you met her at a bar, but even getting an “insta-date” (where you go somewhere else with a girl) is quite rare during the day. What you get at the end of a vast majority of well-executed day approaches is a warm lead (in the form of a phone number) that you can later convert into something more.

4. Indicators of interest are far more subtle.

In the safety of the bar atmosphere, a girl will do all sorts of things that she would never think of doing during the day. At night, a girl who’s even somewhat interested in you might: grind against your erect phallus for 45 minutes on the dance floor, kiss you on the cheek for no reason, tell you you’re cute, grab your arm when you make her laugh, or perform a multitude of similar behaviors. This simply won’t happen during the day, where asking you a personal question about what you do, holding eye contact while you’re talking, or grinning for a straight minute might be really good signs.

5. Groups are harder to penetrate.

In a club, you can come up to a group of three girls, chat them up for a few minutes, make them laugh, and eventually angle to isolate your target for long enough to kiss her or to persuade her to leave with you. During the day, a group of girls is nearly impossible to break up. The exception is a retail environment, where a group may temporary split up to browse the shelves, but even this is rare. Generally speaking, you will have more success with individual girls, though exceptions do occur.

A big part of being successful during the day is to understand these and other differences, and to adapt your day game accordingly. Keep these in mind and you will greatly expand your pool of available girls.

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Posted by tuthmosis in Bars & Clubs, Daytime Game.

9 Comments »
1 Jason
December 11th, 2011

My rejection count is at 9,892 and still counting
What can I do to change that I am constantly left out and ignored

2 A confident girl
December 11th, 2011

Whoever wrote this shit deserves all the rejections he can get! This shit only applies to men who are looking for a one night stand. Srsly, what u expect from a chick who takes a whole day to get ready. Don’t want cock block, don’t approach groups. Lol, i like ur “common sense” or lack of.

3 Anonymous
December 11th, 2011

Maybe instead of playing an elaborate “game,” you all should stop thinking of women in terms of trophies. There are countless women who are looking for Mr Right Now and are uninterested in long-term relationships. The problem with this entire website is that you are essentially advising men seeking unattached sex with women to advertise that they are something they are not. The lies show through, and if a man is lying to your face in a bar full of people, what other things will he do when he has you alone? There is a person in there, under the lingerie and above the high heels who deserves your honesty.

You want to impress a woman in a bar? Be genuine. Accept rejections with grace because she is not obligated to you at all. If you think she’s attractive, tell her. Buy her a drink. Looking for a hook up is a lot easier if you’re tactfully honest about it.

4 mike
December 11th, 2011

This site is for guys, girls dont know what actually works on them, and *its not lying its flirting*

6 Pussytroll
December 11th, 2011

Day game is a lot better than night game. Leads (phones) are more solid and you can see the girl in her more a less natural state.

7 Anonymous
December 11th, 2011

Although I can’t fault the facts that come up in this article( probably more use of truism rather than tacticle advice), I can’t help but condemn who ever wrote this. Please stop calling yourself pic up artists. More like con artists…

8 Anonymous
December 11th, 2011

“Girls don’t know what works on them” huh? This is about as nonsensical as pigs flying…

9 jay
December 11th, 2011

make all girls chase you to have sex! become a real badass!! http://tinyurl.com/BeAXXXBadassWithWomen

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