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How To Pick Up A Goth Girl
Before you think about picking up a goth girl, first ask yourself why these girls turned goth? Chances are it’s because they are tired of the mainstream commercial culture and want to feel or be different. If you are an Abercrombie & Fitch or J Crew dude who looks like everyone else, then you’re not getting any.
The best way to get with a goth girl is to have a unique interest that she values. You don’t have to be goth but you have to trend towards the alternative. For example if you are an artist or DJ, this will immediately appeal to the goth girl, along with anything artsy. But you’re a frat boy then it’s best to stick to those red cup dorm parties.
A good place to pick up goth girls or reformed goth girls are renaissance fairs, also known as “ren fests.” For some reason they cannot resist dressing up in Middle Ages garb and calling each other hags and wenches. Dress up as a knight or monk and work your approach magic. I’m not sure where the line at goth girl ends and the one at nerd begins, but there is a lot of overlap. Think like a goth girl, develop something unique they would be attracted to, then go find them. Easy right?
Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number.
After approaching hundreds of different girls with all types of openers, I finally settled on two that are my "defaults," meaning they are powerful enough that I can use them regardless of the girl or the environment. I share them in my book Bang, along with others you can use for bars, clubs, daytime spots, and even the gym. It has 64 pages on Early Game that focus exclusively on the approach and what to say immediately after. I share dozens of conversation tips with tons of word-for-word examples, and I also teach you the concept of threads to keep the interaction going without having awkward silences.
You can take the time to make up openers on your own, experimenting over the next several months, or you can learn mine and get started using something that works off the bat. If you want to learn my favorite natural openers that are easy to use and actually work, click here to learn more about my book Bang today.
