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How To Pick Girls Up At The Mall
It’s hard to find a guy who has “mastered” the art of picking girls up at the shopping mall, but it can be done.
Now think for a second what the main purpose behind malls are. To shop, right? Therefore if you go in with an approach related to shopping, you will come across as genuine that results in a higher chance of getting a phone number. Last thing you want to do is be labeled the mall creep.
Alright so here is what you do: Walk up to a girl you want to talk to and ask her for an opinion on a gift you want to buy for a feminine relative. Here’s an example…
You: “Hi, can I ask your opinion on something?”
Girl: “Umm sure.”
You: “I’m shopping for my sister who is about your age and I’m not sure if this is a good thing to buy her or not.”
Then you either say or show the thing you are talking about. The girl you are talking to will give her opinion about whether you should buy it or not, and then you try to continue the conversation by either making a joke or statement.
If you say a joke you can something like, “I swear I’m not shopping for myself!”
If you want to make a statement say, “Yeah because it’s pretty difficult to shop for women. It’s like reaching for a light switch in the dark.”
You want to throw some bait out there after you ask for your initial opinion so she responds and a natural conversation develops. The hardest part of shopping mall game is approaching the girls in the first place. It will be awkward having to walk around in the ladies department pretending you are buying a gift. But this is the best way to do it.
Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number.
After approaching hundreds of different girls with all types of openers, I finally settled on two that are my "defaults," meaning they are powerful enough that I can use them regardless of the girl or the environment. I share them in my book Bang, along with others you can use for bars, clubs, daytime spots, and even the gym. It has 64 pages on Early Game that focus exclusively on the approach and what to say immediately after. I share dozens of conversation tips with tons of word-for-word examples, and I also teach you the concept of threads to keep the interaction going without having awkward silences.
You can take the time to make up openers on your own, experimenting over the next several months, or you can learn mine and get started using something that works off the bat. If you want to learn my favorite natural openers that are easy to use and actually work, click here to learn more about my book Bang today.
