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4 Golden Rules To Successful Online Dating


Understand that every online dating site caters to a specific niche. Lavalife is for the young and hip, Match.com is for the mainstream crowd, eHarmony is for the religious, Craigslist is for the kinky, and so on. I guarantee that one site will be a lot more fruitful to you than others, so it’s important you get multiple profiles out there and measure which site gets the most responses. Otherwise you may be wasting your time on a site that doesn’t fit you best.


Online datingThe pictures hold the key to whether a girl is going to read the rest of your profile. While women like to go off on a laundry list of qualities that include “sense of humor” and “kindness to animals,” they are almost as shallow as men when it comes to online dating. They sit back and watch the dozens of responses that come in and take their choice of the guys who look the best.

But how about if you’re not especially good looking? Then what you should do is upload photos that show one of the following qualities that women value:

Social proof. Upload pictures of you with other pretty women, which acts as a stamp of approval that you are accepted by the female race.

Adventurer. Share travel photos in exciting locations and in front of famous monuments. Other good photos are of you rock climbing, mountain biking, and bungee jumping.

Status. Here you want to upload photos of you with famous people or shots in the VIP section of fancy clubs, preferably in Las Vegas.

Don’t overdo it: only upload five photos maximum and keep the captions brief. You want the photos to act as bait so she asks questions about them.


You have to hit the sites every day to message new girls who aren’t already bitter and jaded dating experts. When a girl first signs up to a dating site she is optimistic and hopeful, giving chances to guys who she wouldn’t otherwise, so therefore you want to be one of her “firsts.” In the site’s dashboard organize women by how recently they signed up and message the new girls before any other.


Girls want guys who are already getting girls, so the last thing you want to do is have a desperate vibe that reeks of no sex. When you’re writing your profile, here is the mindset that I want you to have:

“I’m already getting women, so this online dating thing isn’t important to me.”

Even if you aren’t getting women, you want to subconsciously broadcast that you already are, that you’re just experimenting and don’t take things too seriously. Therefore you need to come across as more cocky and aloof than other guys, as these things will be more powerful in attracting women.

These golden rules are all you need to know to get the ball rolling. Now it’s just a matter of making first contact. Experiment from sending smiley faces and simple hello’s to cocky messages like, “You seem like the type of girl who screens out guys all day waiting for Mr. Perfect.” Challenge them and when they respond get a conversation going. Ask them for a date after they start asking personal questions about you.

Honestly I never got deep into internet game. After college I was lucky to know a couple guys who were club rats and knew how to approach and game women in person. I started off copying their moves and lines and in the course of six years I developed a game on my own that consistently builds attraction (without having to go online).

I recorded my system into an affordable book that I call Bang. It has everything that I know about girls divided into five chapters of game: Internal, Early, Middle, Late, and End Game. I’ve always thought that meeting girls and getting to know them in the flesh is much better than copying and pasting messages on the internet.

I’m confident Bang is the only book you’ll ever need to read about sleeping with girls, and I completely back it up with a no-questions-asked money back guarantee. If you’ve ever spotted a girl you were attracted to and wondered how you could talk to her in a way that ends in sex, then Bang will help. Click here to read ten full-length sample pages of Bang today before grabbing your copy.

Posted by on March 15, 2010.

Categories: Approaching

3 Responses

  1. real life >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> online

    by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2012 at 2:51 pm

  2. I have fun with, result in I found just what I was looking for. You’ve ended my 4 day lengthy hunt! God Bless you man. Have a great day. Bye

    by Awesome Flirting Tips For Men on May 16, 2012 at 2:52 pm

  3. The main thing to remember is that your online dating profiles are just another tool in your PUA toolbox. You can’t spend all your time sitting in front of the computer drooling over women you’ll probably never meet, or put all your eggs in one basket and forget how to socialize in real life. But, committing to spending no more than an hour a day responding to messages and sending out a few new messages to interesting girls no more than 2-3 sites is a very healthy supplement to the usual PUA activities. And will result in more chances to meet women.

    You can’t spend every single night out at bars, clubs, coffeehouses, etc; some nights you have to stay home. And on the nights when you’re not actively prospecting, the websites are working for you behind the scenes. Get to know them for what they are, and they are a powerful tool to be used in conjunction with the other PUA teachings.

    by AdeptMaestro on Jun 26, 2015 at 12:20 pm

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